Butt stuff
Want to learn more about butt stuff and do it correctly? Keep reading. There is a lot of preparation and cleaning that goes with butt stuff. I’ll go over each step from prepping, pleasurable spots, cleaning and more.
Clean
No matter your gender, cleaning and prepping is basically the same. Enema bulbs are for everyone. To minimize discomfort, you can do this laying on your side with your knees to your chest and a towel under you. You also have the option to clean over the toilet. Choose what works best for you. To use an Enema bulb, lubricate the tube first and put it about 4 inches in the rectum. Squeeze gently to get the water in. Keep the liquid in for a little bit then slowly relax your muscles to let the water out. You only need to do this about four times. Don’t go overboard.
Loosen Up
Everyone needs to have their muscles relaxed to avoid injury when it comes to anal. Please take your time! Lube will be your best friend, it’s the most important thing to ensure and good and safe experience. Rimming (oral) + fingering is a good way to start and get someone relaxed. If you’re uncomfortable with rimming, just fingering will be enough. Start off with one finger and go up to three or four until you’re ready. Make sure your fingers are lubed up as well as whatever you’re using for anal play. This could be a person or a toy. Anal plugs are also a good way to gently stretch out the anus. Consider if you want to be prepped before meeting up with your partner. I suggest starting off small when it comes to plugs.
Technique
Anal orgasms can happen no matter the gender. Experiment with different positions. Everyone is different and don’t always like the same thing. A good rule of thumb is to aim for the belly button when doing any type of penetration. The more comfortable and relax you are, the easier it will be to achieve an O. For men it might be a little easier since they have a prostate in their rectum. For women, the clitoris’ legs stretch down the anal canal so you can also achieve an O.
Stay Safe
Just because you can’t have babies with anal, doesn’t mean you don’t need condoms. Protecting yourself from diseases is important. Doing anal without protection can let semen get into your rectum which causes bad stomach aches. If anything, make sure you clean right after. You can do this by using your fingers to scoop out the semen and use an enema bulb. Always be safe and have fun.
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